NOTES (Self-Help)

Becoming a sage

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  • The greatest human beings that have ever lived were not entrepreneurs, celebrities, athletes, political leaders, CEOs, artists, self-help teachers.
    • They were sages and mystics
      • People like the Buddha, Christ, Heraclitus, Socrates, Mahavira, Pyrrho, Marcus Aurelius, Rumi, Yogananda, Gandhi, Sadhguru…
  • To get the most juice out of life you’ll have to become a sage

A sage is not:

  • An ideological crusader
  • A cold smart intellectual or academic who knows a lot but has no mastery over himself

What does it mean to be a sage/mystic

  • High quality of self-mastery
  • A commitment to truth, consciousness, goodness, and love
  • A radical turning inward
How to become a sage
– You need a vision
* A vision is more important than knowing how
– Set your top value as truth and understanding
A radical turning inward is required

* A rejection of culture and society
* Freeing yourself of materialism
* The purification of your body, mind, emotions, and habits
– Developing a strong energy body
* You can take emotions coming at you without being affected
– Massive theoretical reading
– Seek uncommon knowledge
* You need to sift through a lot of bullshit
– Raising of awareness
* Concentration, meditation, etc.
– Being creative
Be a big-picture thinker
Develop unconditional love
You want to help others raise their awareness as well

Advice for young people

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  • The spectrum of life experiences is wider than you think
    • Life can get extremely bad
    • Life can also get extremely good
  • Life is multi-dimensional
    • Life is enormously complex
  • To live a good life you need to figure out both how life works and how you fit into life
  • You have to be true to yourself
    • Figure out life for yourself
      • Don’t just repeat someone else’s life
      • Ask yourself what you’re here to do
  • Spend more time reflecting and turning inward
    • The mind doesn’t want to look inward
  • You should master your mind
  • Your greatest enemy is yourself
    • You need to take responsibility for your life
  • Your mind is projecting and creating reality
    • Your thoughts, belief system, and emotions are all creating the reality that you see
  • Take the process of learning and understanding very seriously
    • Start questioning everything
    • Become curious about everything
  • Have something in your life that you’re deeply passionate about
    • Work on your own terms, not someone else’s
  • Desire is more important than knowing how to do something
    • Constantly ask yourself “What do I want?”
    • Without passion or motivation, you’re just going to go with the flow
      • You’re going to get the status quo
  • Meaning is created by oneself
    • Really there is no meaning
      • This means life will only be meaningful if you decide to make it so
  • Reality is subjective
    • It’s not really objective
  • Get in touch with your feelings and intuition
    • Spend a lot of time feeling (emotions, senses, etc.)
  • When you’re suffering, have the courage to feel into that more deeply
    • Don’t suppress or numb out the negative things
      • Face your problems head-on rather than trying to avoid them
  • Make a commitment towards radical self-honesty
    • Always be honest and truthful with yourself
      • Take truth very seriously
    • You won’t be able to maintain your lies to others without lying to yourself
  • Life is deeply counterintuitive
  • Be proactive
    • You want to be in the driver’s seat of your life
  • Develop mastery in something
  • Understand how people are different
    • People have different psychologies, looks, genetics, temperament, etc.
      • It can be said that we live in different realities that intertwine (mind creates reality)
  • You’ll need to spend a lot of time deprogramming
    • You’ve been programmed by your parents and culture for most of your life
    • Your parents (and cultures) dysfunctions have been transferred to you
  • One can assume that one has a moderate amount of trauma
    • When you’re young you’re especially vulnerable to trauma
      • The younger you were when the trauma happened the deeper in your mind it is
    • Basically, every time you weren’t approved of or loved, you got trauma
  • Don’t take health for granted
    • Health gets harder when you get older
    • Learn about proper nutrition and exercise
  • Reality isn’t a physical system, it’s consciousness
    • You understand consciousness by experiencing and being conscious of it
      • Be more conscious and raise your level of consciousness
        • The more conscious you are, the more you understand how things really are
        • The less conscious you are, the more you’re in a daze (sleepwalking through life)
    • You’re meshed into reality, you aren’t separate from it
      • You aren’t in reality, you are reality
  • Life is about two forces
    • Fear vs love
      • Really fear is just a lack of love, not its opposite
    • Selfishness vs selflessness
  • Direct experience is king
    • Experience is all that you have of reality
    • Everything real, you have experienced
      • Reality is experience
  • Get serious about life
    • Figure out what life is, why you’re here, what it’s all about
  • The biggest obstacle to you doing this is culture
    • The beliefs and ideologies that culture has programmed you with
      • You’ll need to deconstruct all of that
  • Your youth is your most precious resource
    • Don’t squander your youth
    • Between the ages of 15-30, your entire life can be made or lost
  • Commit to challenging yourself
    • Don’t look for life to be easy
      • The easier you try to make your life, the harder it’s going to be
      • Don’t look for the quick-fix solutions
      • Develop a strong work ethic
  • Set a high standard for yourself
    • You tend to get in life whatever your lowest standard is
    • Aim beyond basic survival
    • Commit to never doing mindless work
  • Don’t overplan your future
    • You want to be adaptable
    • Let your passion guide you, but leave room for exploration
  • Be careful not to get stuck in a rut
    • When you’re in your early 20s-30s don’t tie yourself down to any commitments
    • Change the city you’re in every 5 years
  • Don’t imitate others
    • Force yourself to be authentically you
    • You’ll be tempted to imitate others
    • Don’t get your information from the mainstream sources
  • Don’t get distracted by petty human stuff
    • Gossip, politics, victim mentalities, ideology, etc.
      • Ground yourself in something beyond that
  • Don’t overload your schedule with a lot of commitments and obligations
    • Don’t tie yourself up
    • Leave time for yourself to meditate and contemplate
  • People in society will try to trick you
    • Don’t take people’s words at face value
    • People are ignorant and looking for shortcuts
      • Trickery is a survival strategy
  • Stop trying to get love from others or from things
    • You think you’ll get love by making others fill your cup
      • You want to be the one filling other people’s cups
        • Fill your own cup by developing yourself through spiritual work and creative work
    • You buy a car, a house, and do some drugs because you get a feeling of love
      • Stop expecting these things to give you love
  • There are many different stages of development for humans
    • Not all people are on the same level
      • There are superhuman levels of development that are possible
        • They see reality differently
    • The levels are totally different ways of looking at, and being in the world
    • You should study the stages
  • Reality is perspectival, relative, and subjective
    • Reality is perspective
      • There is no objective reality, there are only perspectives
    • We cling to our own perspectives and denounce others’ perspectives

The most serious and common traps

The trap of ideology

  • Falling into belief systems and defending them
    • With religion, politics, philosophy, spirituality, science, etc.
    • The belief systems are like the operating systems of your mind
      • They govern what kind of apps you can install

Being hyper-logical

  • Overanalyzing everything leads to problems
    • This can be seen with science
      • Studying at a distance from reality doesn’t work when you’re a part of it yourself
    • Logic is easily abused to justify any ideological or belief system
    • Emotions are more powerful than logic

10 things you don’t know you want

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  • There are deep and advanced things worth pursuing that you aren’t even aware of
    • The things you’re actually pursuing, usually you don’t even question why you’re pursuing them
    • When you hear the things you really want, it will sound like you don’t want them
  • Your entire life strategy is based on what you want, if those wants are wrong then you could be wasting decades of your life
    • You need to question your wants

Things you don’t know you want

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