Becoming a sage
- The greatest human beings that have ever lived were not entrepreneurs, celebrities, athletes, political leaders, CEOs, artists, self-help teachers.
- They were sages and mystics
- People like the Buddha, Christ, Heraclitus, Socrates, Mahavira, Pyrrho, Marcus Aurelius, Rumi, Yogananda, Gandhi, Sadhguru…
- They were sages and mystics
- To get the most juice out of life you’ll have to become a sage
A sage is not:
- An ideological crusader
- A cold smart intellectual or academic who knows a lot but has no mastery over himself
What does it mean to be a sage/mystic
- High quality of self-mastery
- A commitment to truth, consciousness, goodness, and love
- A radical turning inward
| How to become a sage – You need a vision * A vision is more important than knowing how – Set your top value as truth and understanding – A radical turning inward is required * A rejection of culture and society * Freeing yourself of materialism * The purification of your body, mind, emotions, and habits – Developing a strong energy body * You can take emotions coming at you without being affected – Massive theoretical reading – Seek uncommon knowledge * You need to sift through a lot of bullshit – Raising of awareness * Concentration, meditation, etc. – Being creative – Be a big-picture thinker – Develop unconditional love – You want to help others raise their awareness as well |
Advice for young people
- The spectrum of life experiences is wider than you think
- Life can get extremely bad
- Life can also get extremely good
- Life is multi-dimensional
- Life is enormously complex
- To live a good life you need to figure out both how life works and how you fit into life
- You have to be true to yourself
- Figure out life for yourself
- Don’t just repeat someone else’s life
- Ask yourself what you’re here to do
- Figure out life for yourself
- Spend more time reflecting and turning inward
- The mind doesn’t want to look inward
- You should master your mind
- Your greatest enemy is yourself
- You need to take responsibility for your life
- Your mind is projecting and creating reality
- Your thoughts, belief system, and emotions are all creating the reality that you see
- Take the process of learning and understanding very seriously
- Start questioning everything
- Become curious about everything
- Have something in your life that you’re deeply passionate about
- Work on your own terms, not someone else’s
- Desire is more important than knowing how to do something
- Constantly ask yourself “What do I want?”
- Without passion or motivation, you’re just going to go with the flow
- You’re going to get the status quo
- Meaning is created by oneself
- Really there is no meaning
- This means life will only be meaningful if you decide to make it so
- Really there is no meaning
- Reality is subjective
- It’s not really objective
- Get in touch with your feelings and intuition
- Spend a lot of time feeling (emotions, senses, etc.)
- When you’re suffering, have the courage to feel into that more deeply
- Don’t suppress or numb out the negative things
- Face your problems head-on rather than trying to avoid them
- Don’t suppress or numb out the negative things
- Make a commitment towards radical self-honesty
- Always be honest and truthful with yourself
- Take truth very seriously
- You won’t be able to maintain your lies to others without lying to yourself
- Always be honest and truthful with yourself
- Life is deeply counterintuitive
- Be proactive
- You want to be in the driver’s seat of your life
- Develop mastery in something
- Understand how people are different
- People have different psychologies, looks, genetics, temperament, etc.
- It can be said that we live in different realities that intertwine (mind creates reality)
- People have different psychologies, looks, genetics, temperament, etc.
- You’ll need to spend a lot of time deprogramming
- You’ve been programmed by your parents and culture for most of your life
- Your parents (and cultures) dysfunctions have been transferred to you
- One can assume that one has a moderate amount of trauma
- When you’re young you’re especially vulnerable to trauma
- The younger you were when the trauma happened the deeper in your mind it is
- Basically, every time you weren’t approved of or loved, you got trauma
- When you’re young you’re especially vulnerable to trauma
- Don’t take health for granted
- Health gets harder when you get older
- Learn about proper nutrition and exercise
- Reality isn’t a physical system, it’s consciousness
- You understand consciousness by experiencing and being conscious of it
- Be more conscious and raise your level of consciousness
- The more conscious you are, the more you understand how things really are
- The less conscious you are, the more you’re in a daze (sleepwalking through life)
- Be more conscious and raise your level of consciousness
- You’re meshed into reality, you aren’t separate from it
- You aren’t in reality, you are reality
- You understand consciousness by experiencing and being conscious of it
- Life is about two forces
- Fear vs love
- Really fear is just a lack of love, not its opposite
- Selfishness vs selflessness
- Fear vs love
- Direct experience is king
- Experience is all that you have of reality
- Everything real, you have experienced
- Reality is experience
- Get serious about life
- Figure out what life is, why you’re here, what it’s all about
- The biggest obstacle to you doing this is culture
- The beliefs and ideologies that culture has programmed you with
- You’ll need to deconstruct all of that
- The beliefs and ideologies that culture has programmed you with
- Your youth is your most precious resource
- Don’t squander your youth
- Between the ages of 15-30, your entire life can be made or lost
- Commit to challenging yourself
- Don’t look for life to be easy
- The easier you try to make your life, the harder it’s going to be
- Don’t look for the quick-fix solutions
- Develop a strong work ethic
- Don’t look for life to be easy
- Set a high standard for yourself
- You tend to get in life whatever your lowest standard is
- Aim beyond basic survival
- Commit to never doing mindless work
- Don’t overplan your future
- You want to be adaptable
- Let your passion guide you, but leave room for exploration
- Be careful not to get stuck in a rut
- When you’re in your early 20s-30s don’t tie yourself down to any commitments
- Change the city you’re in every 5 years
- Don’t imitate others
- Force yourself to be authentically you
- You’ll be tempted to imitate others
- Don’t get your information from the mainstream sources
- Don’t get distracted by petty human stuff
- Gossip, politics, victim mentalities, ideology, etc.
- Ground yourself in something beyond that
- Gossip, politics, victim mentalities, ideology, etc.
- Don’t overload your schedule with a lot of commitments and obligations
- Don’t tie yourself up
- Leave time for yourself to meditate and contemplate
- People in society will try to trick you
- Don’t take people’s words at face value
- People are ignorant and looking for shortcuts
- Trickery is a survival strategy
- Stop trying to get love from others or from things
- You think you’ll get love by making others fill your cup
- You want to be the one filling other people’s cups
- Fill your own cup by developing yourself through spiritual work and creative work
- You want to be the one filling other people’s cups
- You buy a car, a house, and do some drugs because you get a feeling of love
- Stop expecting these things to give you love
- You think you’ll get love by making others fill your cup
- There are many different stages of development for humans
- Not all people are on the same level
- There are superhuman levels of development that are possible
- They see reality differently
- There are superhuman levels of development that are possible
- The levels are totally different ways of looking at, and being in the world
- You should study the stages
- Not all people are on the same level
- Reality is perspectival, relative, and subjective
- Reality is perspective
- There is no objective reality, there are only perspectives
- We cling to our own perspectives and denounce others’ perspectives
- Reality is perspective
The most serious and common traps
The trap of ideology
- Falling into belief systems and defending them
- With religion, politics, philosophy, spirituality, science, etc.
- The belief systems are like the operating systems of your mind
- They govern what kind of apps you can install
Being hyper-logical
- Overanalyzing everything leads to problems
- This can be seen with science
- Studying at a distance from reality doesn’t work when you’re a part of it yourself
- Logic is easily abused to justify any ideological or belief system
- Emotions are more powerful than logic
- This can be seen with science
10 things you don’t know you want
- There are deep and advanced things worth pursuing that you aren’t even aware of
- The things you’re actually pursuing, usually you don’t even question why you’re pursuing them
- When you hear the things you really want, it will sound like you don’t want them
- Your entire life strategy is based on what you want, if those wants are wrong then you could be wasting decades of your life
- You need to question your wants
Things you don’t know you want
